Sunday, December 25, 2016
Posted by holynickel at 11:16 PM
Sunday, November 13, 2016
See, I am a messed up cookie trying to be a perfect one. I have lived the majority of my life trying to present a pretty and perfect self to the world. I strive to look
The amazing thing is....God is not surprised about my broken and messed up places. And even more amazing...those broken places and messed up areas He wants to use for His glory. Did you see all the I statements? I really am all of those things. But Jesus is more! I am not perfect or sinless or without mistakes, but Jesus is. I do not have it all together, but Jesus is directing my steps and is making all things work together for good. I am afraid, but the Bible tells us that He has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound judgement. I feel insecure, but my place is secure in Christ. I am a co heir with him, and I am firmly held with in the Father's hand. I feel insufficient, but He says His grace is sufficient. When I feel inadequate, He says my adequacy comes only from Him.
I am reminded of the woman in Mark 14:3. Do you remember the story? See Jesus was at Simon the Leper's house reclining at a table when this unnamed woman comes to him with an alabaster jar of pure oil of nard. An expensive jar of fragrant oil believed to be worth about one year's wages. She brings in this jar, breaks it open and anoints Jesus's head with the oil inside. She had to break the jar for the fragrance and the oil to be released. Did you get that? The jar had to be......broken. We could even say that until the jar was broken, the oil was useless.
I am learning that I need not be afraid to be broken. I don't need to fear my mistakes. And, most importantly, I need to let others see the mess. Jesus is not looking for a beautiful alabaster jar to sit on a shelf. He is looking for a broken mess, that is bathed in His grace. Then, the sweet fragrance of a transformed life is released into this lost world.
You know as well as I do, broken cookies taste just as good as perfect ones. And now, I think they may taste even better. Because I know Jesus can use a broken life much more than he can use a perfect one.
Posted by holynickel at 3:21 PM
Thursday, April 28, 2016
|Yes....this is my actual bush.|
|Taken the same day as the previous picture.|
Thursday, December 10, 2015
Today we celebrated the life of my Grandma Mavis. I cannot tell you how bittersweet this week has been. There is a huge hole in my heart, and yet, I know that Grandma is no longer suffering, no longer in pain, no longer in poor health. She is totally healed, walking the streets of gold with her Savior, Jesus Christ. Grandma lived her life as Christ would want her too. Loving him and loving others.
|Grandma and Grandpa showing us kids true love after almost 65 years.|
|Grandma Mavis (Seated) with 3 of her sisters.|
No words could ever truly express how much Grandma means to me or how much I love her. So instead, I want to take a moment and share a few thoughts about my grandma. Grandma’s house was one of the most exciting places for us as kids, and the main reason was the people that lived there. Grandma made it exciting. We would play games, never ending games of skip-bo, phase Ten, Uno, and Bounce off. She would let me bake cakes, make brownies and cookies, and peel potatoes, even when more potato wound up with the peelings than in the pot. And the Ceramics…..I cannot tell you how many items she let me ruin with my lack of painting skills. Her love and patience with us was never ending.
I find myself trying to hold on to every memory I have, and searching for ones that may be lost to me. One that comes to my mind is from when I was very small. I distinctly remember her holding me quietly singing a lullaby with these words:
Go to sleep my baby dear,
I will hold you ever near,
Go to sleep and when you wake,
You shall have a piece of cake
Grandma’s caresses, Sweet loving kisses
Grandma’s caresses fall on you now.
And that is exactly how it was…She spent her life caressing us – Showering her family and friends with love in ways that will never be duplicated.
I could go on all day and tell you about the loads of laundry she did for me when I was pregnant and on bedrest, or just pregnant and huge. The cleaning, the cooking, the cards and the calls…but instead, I will leave you the wisest man’s description from Proverbs 31…
In Praise of a Capable Wife
10 Who can find a capable wife?
She is far more precious than jewels.
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will not lack anything good.
12 She rewards him with good, not evil,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with willing hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from far away.
15 She rises while it is still night
and provides food for her household
and portions for her female servants.
16 She evaluates a field and buys it;
she plants a vineyard with her earnings.
17 She draws on her strength
and reveals that her arms are strong.
18 She sees that her profits are good,
and her lamp never goes out at night.
19 She extends her hands to the spinning staff,
and her hands hold the spindle.
20 Her hands reach out to the poor,
and she extends her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid for her household when it snows,
for all in her household are doubly clothed.
22 She makes her own bed coverings;
her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is known at the city gates,
where he sits among the elders of the land.
24 She makes and sells linen garments;
she delivers belts to the merchants.
25 Strength and honor are her clothing,
and she can laugh at the time to come.
26 She opens her mouth with wisdom
and loving instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the activities of her household
and is never idle.
28 Her sons rise up and call her blessed.
Her husband also praises her:
29 “Many women are capable,
but you surpass them all!”
30 Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting,
but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
31 Give her the reward of her labor,
and let her works praise her at the city gates.
That is my Grandma. She has left me a legacy of love and of Christ that I can only hope to live up to. And I already miss her so much.
Posted by holynickel at 7:11 PM
Wednesday, October 15, 2014
Some writing from earlier this year....
We have had a family of robins build a residence in the Y of one of our gutters. Last week, three baby robins began their fledgling life into our big backyard. Now, our yard would be a perfect place for these little ones to learn about the world if were not for Allie, the demon cat, and Hank, the insanely jealous dog. So, as Hank was out to do his business later that day, Papa and Mama Robin were not happy. They were chirping out warnings, and dive bombing poor Hank. The diving commenced any time he stepped more than 2 feet of the deck. Hank would run after his ball. Papa and Mama Robin would swoop straight for him. Eventually, Hank did not even want to get off the deck. He would stand there, right on the edge, waiting and watching but too afraid to take the chance and move. The birds know Hank is powerful. They know that he can destroy them and their young. They are attacking because he has the potential to ruin them. Once Hank realizes he is bigger and stronger, those baby birds are in trouble. Mom and Dad Robin are just trying to keep it from happening.
The thing is - This happens in my life too. I am like Hank waiting to step off the deck into the big thing God is asking me to do. But the moment I take a step in that direction, Satan starts fighting. He sends his bombs in the form of temptation and doubt and unbelief, and I run back to the safety of the deck. But I have the very Spirit of Christ living in me. I have been made more than a conqueror (Romans 8:23). Satan's blows are nothing more than hot air. It is posturing. He knows through Christ I can defeat him and fulfill my purpose. The minute I step off the deck into what God has planned is the very moment I receive the strength I need to do God's will.
A lot of things are going on over here. Not bad things by any means. But changes. The Lord is stirring some things up. I am not sure what is going on in your life. But I do know...over here...it is time to get off the deck.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
I was offered a free one month trial of Time4Learning in exchange for a candid review of the program. Never heard of Time4Learning? Time4Learing is a Pre-K through 8th grade online curriculum for homeschooler. It is comprehensive, and you can use it as your entire homeschool curriculum, or, as in our case, you can use it as a supplement to you current curriculum. Time4Learning can also be used by a parent as a supplement to a private or public school curriculum.
Time4Learning has many great features. As mention before it is a comprehensive program. Every grade covers every subject for that level, Math, Language Arts, Science, Social Studies, etc. Time4Learning also has a playground area for the students to play at after a set time to give them a break from their studies. You can think of it as recess at a virtual school. Time4Learning tracks the students progress so parents can know exactly what the students are learning and how well they are doing.
Personally, I love the concept of Time4Learning
. I love the freedom that is gives me as a parent. I love that my kids are not dependent on me for every aspect of their education. My kids enjoyed the lessons that they did at Time4Learning, and liked learning things in a new and different way. However, since we were using Time4Learning as a supplement to our regular homeschool curriculum, many days we just did not have time for another activity and Time4Learning was forgotten or skipped. Another disadvantage for our family is the price. The cost for the curriculum is 19.95 per month for the first child and then 14.95 per month for each additional child. That is just too much of a monthly expense for our three kids to use as a supplement.
Overall, I was pleased with what the lessons my children did at Time4Learning. If I was looking for a complete online curriculum to use in place of our current curriculum, I would definitely consider Time4Learning. Right now, however, we just cannot afford it as a supplement.
For more information visit the Time4Learning website located here.